She got married at such an early age, got pregnant with baby number one and quit her job. She didn’t know what its like to be a super-Mom, the working mother with career to balance;
She purposely eat pineapple and drinks Coke when she knows she’s pregnant with baby number two when baby number one is only three months old and consequently had a miscarriage. What kind of mother (monster!) would do that? In fact she does it twice and got miscarriage twice!! Even when she told me about the miscarriage, she had shown no remorse at all!
Even with the miscarriage, Allah blessed her with 4 children with 2-3 years ages apart from each other and then, she have the nerve to boasts that she can manage her children without a maid’s help. She’s a housewife, for God’s sake!!!
She said I should not get a new maid because ‘Ana should learn to take care of her children, on her own!’ FYI, my children won’t leave my side once I’m home and completely ignore my maid.
Actually this part hurts and irritates me so much. She cannot judge me like that especially whenI’m nine-months pregnant with two baby aged two and a half years old and another baby aged one and a half year old. When I cannot get up early in the morning to cook breakfast for Gen, Adam and Hannah because my back ache is just killing me. When I can barely take care of myself.
She gives an example that the other mother who is working as well, is doing fine by sending her son to a nanny. Well, I cannot argue with that because that other mother has only a son and she’s a teacher. She only works half-day!!
Don’t ever compare your life or other people’s life with mine!
I love Adam and Hannah and the baby that i'm carrying now so much. I'm not happy to leave them for work every morning. Even when I just knew that I am pregnant, I already loved them so much. For me, they are the greatest gift that Allah ever gave me and I will protect them with all my strengthand with everything that I have.
Alhamdulillah Allah had blessed me with a great mother. For that I am forever thankful.
Me: This picture is evil, exactly just like I imagine her in my mind.
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